A Scripture Verse



Jesus said, "Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted", Matthew 5:5, King James Version (Cambridge Edition)











About Our Ministry

Naomi’s Ministry is Christian blog designed to provide encouragement, strength and prayer to individuals who are experiencing loss, grief and recovering from traumatic experiences.

This blog site is to encourage, pray and support persons experiencing a wide range of losses that anyone of us may experience in our lifetime. The parting of a special loved one by death; divorce; the loss of job and financial security; the loss of limb(s) or debilitating illness or disease; the loss of a home or opportunity, are all "losses" and at varying degrees, may catapult you into a grieving cycle or traumatic event. However, we may not be on the road to recovery, if the right resources are not available to give us perspective on our feelings and the changes that happens in one’s life when a loss of any kind occurs. We need courage to grieve and to wait before God for the healing that comes, sometimes, one day at a time.

This is "first" a ministry of encouragement:

Know that what you are going through is normal for anyone who has experienced what you have experienced. Knowing how to go through the process, recognizing when you are grieving and seeking the help you may need will aid in the recovery process.


Know that it is okay that you are hurting. No explanations are needed. Admitting that is a first step toward your recovery. Recovery does not mean that you will forget the one or object of your loss. This also does not mean you will not forget the trauma of your victimization. Emotional healing will allow you to live authentically, freely, victoriously in spite of the event.

Know that you are not alone. Jesus Christ promised never to leave us or forsake us (The book of Hebrews, chapter 13, verse 5). This promise found in the Holy Scriptures is a promise from the Lord Himself that He is always with us, even during our darkest nights. Jesus also said, “I will not leave you comfortless” (The book of the Gospel of John, chapter 14, verse 18).

 Know that “The Comforter will come” (The book of the Gospel of John, chapter 16, verse 7). The Comforter that Jesus Christ is referencing is God the Holy Spirit, (part of the triune Godhead). As you call out to God in faith during this time of tremendous emotional and sometimes physical pain, the Lord will send His Spirit to minister to your mind, body, soul and spirit. He alone can heal the hurts of loss, grief and trauma. The Holy Spirit will wipe away "your tears". Jesus "is willing" to heal you if you but ask and trust Him in the process of recovery.

 Know one day you will be able to smile again. The sun will shine again and you will laugh again. You will have more good days to come. The Lord knows the thoughts and plans he has for you (Jeremiah 29:11), even if you cannot see it in the midst of this defining moment. If you will trust the Lord’s plans for you, you will come through this season, whole and able to continue on in your life’s journey.

Search out a church home or fellowship, grief recovery counselor/support group. Depending on our needs, we may need some assistance beyond what a blog, book or cards offer. Professional help is available. Pray and ask the Lord to direct you to a place of healing and confidentiality. Check out the resources at your church or another Christ-centered congregation. There are also Christian counseling services and grief recovery ministries and support groups that are of great help. Please do not grieve alone.

The time for recovery is NOW. Just like you would go to the hospital’s emergency room if you were physically in need of medical treatment, so during high levels of emotional crisis, you should not wait to seek help or assistance. DON’T WAIT TO GET HELP. This is the time to admit that you are hurting and it is okay.

Keep talking to God the Father, the Father of ALL Comfort. He knows your grief and the journey ahead. Also believe that He loves you even when you are sad. This ministry is reaching out to you with Jesus' love. We are praying for your total healing and recovery.

If you are interested in receiving bible-based books on grief recovery or one of the quarterly bible studies, please write me at:
jesusislord14@outlook.com. Please do not request money - request prayer or a book.

Please include your prayer requests when you write. We love you and we are praying for you.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving

I am so thankful for what God has done for me through the years...I love Christmas, because Jesus is Christmas.....but I don't like the shopping...and the need to decide who to buy for....Christmas would be better for me if we just had Christmas service, Christmas dinner and fellowship and NO GIFT EXCHANGE...except to give to the poor, elderly, orphans and widows and prisoners....ONLY!! Sorry, but everybody I know has enough if not more than enough or too much...

I love Thanksgiving, because it reminds of God's faithfulness throughout the year....I sang Great is Thy Faithfulness a few times this morning...the Holy Spirit just reminding me of that great hymn of the church and the greatness and faithfulness of God.

And then later on... a little melancholy set in and I could not stop it...I prayed through it...cried through it...and felt some anniversary mourning today about so many things....losses...my Dad not being here, my brother not being here..the family being separated..I'm so glad I drove to CT to be with my mother or she would have been in the house all alone this Thanksgiving....I did see my grandmother who is 97 years old and lost so much weight but still looking good and she ate all of her food and I'm thankful for that...

Grief is a little sneaky I guess...I could not help from mourning ...and this is called Holiday Grief...it is sometimes in the holidays that we miss the ones we love the most or we grieve something missing....I got through it by eating enough sweet potato pie for three people; crying, praying and just allowing myself to be...I also went to the movies with my mom and that was a great distraction. But God is with me and the what I love most about the Lord is that He understands and He knows me (you) and He will help us through the holidays knowing that this too will pass....

I did laugh today too...and that reminded me that the grief was not all consuming....and I am being careful not to watch certain programs or shows that are too harsh or

Sunday, November 22, 2009

A Time to Heal - God is Our Healer

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 (New International Version)




Ecclesiastes 3

A Time for Everything

1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: 2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, 3 a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, 4 a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, 5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain, 6 a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away, 7 a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, 8 a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.

God's word is so rich....and timely. No matter what we have read or known before, it is when God by the Holy Spirit lifts His Word to your heart and understanding, then meaning comes to you in new ways.

As I read these verses again, I realized that I have gone through all of these seasons at various times in my life, but did not fully grasp that it was a "season" of God's purpose. In Christendom today, we hear so many songs talking about "it's your season"....and we are looking for material blessings and riches and comfort...but God's word does not always promise seasons (or showers) of blessings. Indeed, the Word of God does say those seasons come...but they also go....and with them comes other seasons of planting, and uprooting...and building...and tearing down...and dancing...and mourning...and killing and healing.....

This sermonette is to tell you to ask the Holy Spirit to help you to identify the season you are currently in so that you can find God's divine purpose in it. It may not be a season of abundance...but the season, whatever it is, is divinely appointed by God to show you a greater view of Himself...and that is the richness of Christ that we should desire. Even when we are in the season of mourning....a season of healing will come too....

Wait on it. You may be in your season of mourning...find God in it...Jesus was "acquainted with grief"...He is the best grief counselor I know...and then go through your season of healing....go through the process..go through the valley...with Jesus. He is our Healer.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

We Are More Than Conquerors Through Jesus Christ Our Lord

For everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith (1 John 5:4).


Everyone who has believed in the Lord Jesus Christ as the Son of God and has given their life to Christ as Lord and Savior WILL overcome this world......it is our heritage and the Lord's promise to us. With our faith, we can overcome anything that this world will try to put on us....and anything that we may go through in this world...We will overcome by our faith in Christ and a God who "is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him" (Hebrews 11:6).

This has encouraged my heart today. Right when I think what else must I have to deal with Lord, God's great faithfulness reminds me of His infinitive care of me in spite of myself, other people and circumstances. In my darkest nights, my faith by God's help has restored me to know that with Christ, there are always new beginnings. I have in the last month met some terrific people who are asking me to link up with them in ministry. I have had the opportunity in spite of my own personal battles, to bless, encourage and minister to others and watch God create opportunity after opportunity. These great men and women of God are somewhat unsuspecting at first glance, but they are busy doing Christ's work int he world, simply, one day at a time, one victory at a time and through seeming defeats.....

Whatever you are facing today....a friend told me today, don't wait for the breakthrough...push through and the breakthrough will come...

Be Blessed in Him who keeps on Saving Us!

Sis Birdsong